Sometimes your relationship or emotional attachment to
family may prevent to reach your ultimate goal .In order to realize your dreams;
you may have to sacrifice some emotional baggage temporarily to achieve your
goal. But that does not mean that you have to hurt your parents, spouse or children,
you should be politely ignorant some of the things that may be bothered you a
lot. “
In a Spiritual context, as God being the center or priority
in your life, no matter what ,the “Real you” can be achieved by involving the
way that you can please God. So suppose your closed ones are somehow knowingly
or unknowingly preventing you to achieve your Goal, then you should diplomatically
comes out of that situation quickly. Sometimes it may take time to realize , So
how do you really find out whether you are away from your goal? If you are
consistently feeling void , then that’s the alarm that you want to be closer to
God the way you were earlier. The fast you realize that fact, the more easily
to come out of that struggle.
In Career context; you might had an ambition of achieving
particular goal for that you might need
dedicated time and effort. But
suppose being in a family, you are sharing different responsibilities of house
hold activities along with your Spouse, E.g: Bringing up the child, Cooking,
Doing Household works. It may be ok as
long as you can concentrate and achieve your goal. But if these activities are
preventing you to not able to have that dedicated time and effort, then you
should find out alternatives. Can I outsource household activities or Cooking?
Or agreement with the Spouse about time management to achieve your goal. But
You should compromise with your Spouse her career goals also.
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